and they just want to help, sincerely. I actually tried some of the remedies while still testing and waiting for the oncologist, and they had no effect. At that point you have to fish or cut bait.
Point is, a lot of what we see or read on the internet makes it seem as though there are simple solutions that will work for everyone. It’s just not the case.
What’s not helpful is when they attach a comment to the advice meant to invoke fear like “yeah, I would never do chemotherapy, I knew a guy who’s wife died 3 weeks after starting chemotherapy” not helpful.
